I can’t tell you how many times I have heard my husband or girlfriend apologize for anything that might have been embarrassing or even embarrassing to them. I’ve heard them apologize for being late to a meeting, for forgetting to bring their wallet, for not getting to the gym right that morning. Their apologies are usually sincere, and I understand that some of these things are embarrassing to them. I understand that there are other times when they’re really sorry that they were late.
For what it’s worth, I have had similar experiences. It’s one of those things that is so ingrained that I have to remind myself to stop. When I am trying to be a good person I have often said to myself, “I’m sorry I was late to a meeting; I’m sorry I forgot to bring my wallet; I’m sorry I’m not getting to the gym right that morning.
It is hard, though, to say that one of these things is embarrassing. In some cases they simply get caught up in their own story arc. In life there are so many more important things to think about, even though they may be embarrassing, than the fact that someone is late. For that reason it is easy to forget to be sorry and that is what has happened.
A lot of these things that are embarrassing are probably just little things that you want to forget, but they are embarrassing because they are such an integral part of who you are. Like the fact that your gym bag is always packed. Or the fact that you aren’t quite ready to go to the gym right that morning. Or the fact that you have forgotten the time you have to be at the gym. Or that you forgot to bring your wallet. And on and on and on and on.
And yet we all have these little things that are a part of the way we are. We dont have to make a big deal out of them as it would just make us seem like more of a failure…
But we can use them. They can be our little “chunks of gold.” We can have our little “golden showers.” And by using the little things that make us who we are, we can make ourselves happier, more fulfilled, and more loving. If we could use our little things and make them part of who we are, then we would be more likely to use them. The same goes for our work…
The best of us is the product of times. The most capable person we know is a product of the times that produced him. But the more our lives are tied to the times, the less time we have to truly do the things that make us who we are. If we could make our lives more like the times, then we would be more likely to be able to use our abilities in the ways that make us happy.
This is a very common issue. While we can certainly do whatever we want, it’s not really the way we want to live. We want to be able to be productive and make the most of our lives. But, the fact that we still have to struggle with how we want to live is a sign that we’re doing something wrong. We want to live in a way that makes us happier.
That’s true, but it’s a very general statement. It doesn’t mean we can’t have a happy life, but its a general statement that we want to make our lives more like the times. Our greatest happiness comes from being productive, rather than having a time-troubled life.
We want to be productive and make the most of our lives, but we also want to have a happy time. We want to be productive and have a fun time. We want to be productive, but we want to make the most of our lives. Its a very general statement.
